Baby was born November 26th...so have been having a rough time feed little one.. he hasn’t been latching in my breast and crying so much because I wasn’t making enough milk yet and he was crying sooo much because he was soo hungry...so I started giving him a pacifier and using the pump to feed him...but my in laws keep telling me over and over again to not use pacifier and don’t use the pump just breast feed the baby...am I doing something wrong like should I just let my baby cry that I carried for 9 months just cry and be in hunger.....I am also giving him breast milk in the morning afternoon night and then formula at night...