How far off from your due date were you? Let me hear your guys stories!

I’m currently 36 weeks 3 days and my husband is in the army. He took leave to come home 10 days before my due date so he could help me prepare last minute things and staying 10 days after due date as well so he can be present for birth. I’m nervous I will go super over my due date and he won’t be here for the birth!! It’s my worst fear right now... I’m trying to induce labor at home naturally with exercising, red raspberry leaf tea, masturbating a lot, using birth ball etc. but I know the baby will come when HE is ready not when I am. The goal is to be all natural labor and birth and for husband to be there. So I want to hear everyone’s stories if they have any other tips for inducing or anything. Thanks! I know this post was all over the place lol.