I’m afraid I’m not sexually attracted to my husband any more.

I don’t know what’s going on. Please, no judgment, I just want advice to those who have been in my shoes.

I’ve been married for 4 years, TTC for 2. I am so deeply in love with my husband. He’s my best friend and an incredible man, he will make an incredible father even more so. He is so amazingly passionate and loving with me, but lately I have had ZERO interest. He’ll go to touch me and I am so uninterested. He’s so kind, he never makes me do anything, he always tells me it’s ok and he loves me no matter what, but I can tell he feels hurt and defeated. He started exercising a ton lately to “look better for me.” I explained how that is absolutely NOT something he needs to do, how fantastic I think he looks, how much I love and find him attractive inside and out. I now make it a point to tell him that and how much I love him every day.

But every time he touches me I recoil. I’m scared. I don’t want this to ruin our marriage. I don’t know what’s wrong with me. I love him, so much. What’s going on? Is this forever? Is this just TTC stress? Please help.