So I've been debating on this for a while. I want to invite all of my family to our twins first birthday that is coming up real soon but I'm afraid it'll be a little too hectic. A little background. My mom doesn't like my mother in law. My mother in law is indifferent. I have 6 siblings. Most of them being between the ages of 8 and 15. Most of my siblings have behavior issues and have tried to damage our house before. And then there is my sister in law and brother in law with their 2 year old son. Should I just invite my parents and my husband's parents? Should I invite everyone? I don't know.