So went to obgyn he sent me to the high risk obgyn due to my age (41) and a few heath risk before he will put me on fertility meds well the high risk dr freaked the shit out of me saying at this age there so much more chance of miscarriage, still births and birth defects. And me bing over weight and diabetic but super controlller type 2 non insulin. Now he has me so scared to try for one last one.

How was your pregnancy for 40 and over and any health issues how did it all end up? Stressing on weather to just give up or continue on.