My son is 17 months and I am pregnant again but with a baby girl. I told my beat friend I wanted a sprinkle and she said I don’t need it I just had a baby. I said it’s not about the gift but celebrating a new life. For the sprinkle I said I just wanted a brunch type event that I’m planning and paying for. I also said it’s not about the gifts I want to celebrate the new baby as I celebrated my son. Now I feel guilty for wanting one. What do you all think ?