Rude DIL :Edit

My MIL lives with us.

She doesnt have much way to make income so she always wants to make it up to us by cleaning and doing laundry.

However it has been a year now and I have asked her multiple times to let me know when she wants to do laundry so I can take my underwear out. It makes me uncomfortable for her to see it. I have stressed this many times to her.

What does she do today yet again?

Picks out all of my underwear from our laundry and goes 'oh well i didn't washhhh your underwear tho'

Knowing full well that isn't my issue.

And then cries about me being upset with her.

I am to the point of not wanting her to even do my laundry period.

And I have talked to my SO about it too and he knows, but I also dont like bringing it up to him because he will be mean about it to his mom...ahhhh

Anyway

Thanks for reading. I mostly just needed to vent

Edit: for those of you who said I should separate it in a smaller basket, I am not wasting water on doing a whole load for just my underwear, I already separate it in bags for it to be added to the load. Also we are limited on space so I was reluctant to get a separate basket for all my clothing, but its come to a breaking point so I figured it out and made room for my own laundry basket and she can do her sons when she pleases.

And finally I had told her nicely about a month ago that I would be doing my own laundry again, I missed doing it.. (which I did, but I also was tired of her being in a mood when doing our laundry and then having her negative energies all over my stuff) So that's why none of my underwear was separated out in the first place when she did it the other day.

She knew this, and I still dont understand why she decided to go ahead and do what she wanted anyway...

There are so many factors going on in my home regarding what lead up to the situation that I wouldnt even know where to start so I'm sorry I missed some details but.. I very much appreciate those of you that heard out my vent.

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