Parent with 10 year old girls

Hello I would love to get to know some experiences you have been through or going through with your 10 year daughter please.

So yesterday after work I came home and noticed right away my daughter was wearing mascara I know my daughter will start going through some phases as she is growing to a teenager. How would you handle a situation where your little girl is trying to grow up so fast?

My daughter has always been a good daughter and she is doing amazing with school her grades are awesome but I am scared my daughter will start to lead into a bad path.

I just want to know some experience you have been through and how you handle the situation?

Last night my husband caught me talking with my daughter while I was explaining to her why she felt the need to go behind my back and used my makeup and try to lie to me that she was not wearing makeup after I asked her if she was wearing makeup. My husband came in and asked my daughter for her phone and told her she will no longer have a phone. He then called my daughter in and we bought talk with her and explained to her why she feels the need to wear make up at such a young age. And she told us because all my friends are wearing make up. We did talk with our daughter for a really long time reading the situation we did not try to make a big deal out of make up but the issue was why did she feel the need to go behind our backs to wear make up. We told her there is an age appropriate time when and where she can wear make up let me tell you it was just mascara. But I did explain to my daughter she is beautiful no matter how she looks she has natural beauty and I also explain to her about how dangerous it is to war makeup from other people I started talking about infections and how a simple use of mascara can harm her eyes and skin. Let alone get catch a disease from sharing with body fluids. My daughter cried and I felt horrible but I just don’t think my daughter needs make up at such a young age.

What are your thoughts about a young girl wearing makeup?? Especially to school?

I know I was a young girl too but I started wearing eyeliner in my freshman year. My husband told my daughter if you feel like you want to wear make up you can come and tell us my husband feels our daughter should never feel that she can’t came to us about little things like this he doesn’t want to lose my daughters trust. And most definitely doesn’t want to see our little girl grow up so fast especially at such a young age. I just hate that my daughter told me I am wearing makeup because all my friends are and I feel like I need it because I don’t like the way I look this broke my heart.