I want to become wifey material

I am looking for some real advice here. I have realized that I need to change my life, and I truly want to have a husband someday instead of having shitty emotionally abusive boyfriends.

What do real men want in a woman? If you are one of these kind of women, how did you find your husband?

I do value myself and I love who I am, but I know that right now there's no question that I'm just not in that league... if you know what I mean...

Idk this may sound too far fetched, but I want a man like the kind on the bachelor. A good, clean, well dressed, educated, kind and respectful man.

I do have a huge tattoo, I'm not a virgin, and I do have a baby. I cant change any of those things...

But do you have advice on which places to shop for modest nice clothing? What type of makeup nice men like? What kind of personality do nice men look for? What kind of other things do nice men look for? (Do men want a woman with money? Are nice men actually superficial? Any other advice you can think of)

Please help a girl out. I'm trying to break through and get out of my class of people

I need wifey lessons!