People handling baby

Hi ladies,

Do any of you get annoyed when baby is handled and passed around multiple times from one person to another?

It is really starting to get on my nerves!! I put her on the floor to play and my husbands family come and take her off her play mat when she isnt even fussing or they just grab her straight out of my arms when im holding her without asking!

Is it rude to tell them they can hold her once to avoid her being passed around like a toy?

Would love to hear your opinions?