Balancing being a wife and mother

Favi • Baby boy arrived 07/12/2019 💙 First time mom❤️

Lately I feel like I haven’t been the best wife. Especially since baby has a cold. But so did my husband at the same time. My husband seems a little distant lately and unhappy which is making me unhappy because I just can’t be around all that negativity that I’m feeling when I’m around him. We’ve talked about it and he’s going through some stuff but I feel like us talking about it didn’t change anything. How do you balance the two most important jobs we have as women? I certainly care about my family and want to raise my son in a loving home and that’s why I think this but I’m just having trouble on how. Anyone else had this issue? Any advice? How did you do it?