Usually he is very helpful. This is our first baby and i am an overseas student my husband is on dependent visa. He works 6am-8pm. I know he works really hard and do not get enough time for rest. But atleast he is getting full night sleep, hot meal, clean clothes and all other work done that a mom do for her toddler bcoz my husband is not less than a child to handle. He helps me by holding our baby while i prepare dinner. Meanwhile he keeps calling me look babe he is smiling, come soon i think he pooped, can u get me a glass of water plz and alot of other things. If i have to come over again and again to check the baby so there is no point of husband help in holding baby bcoz i can put my baby in swing and work. I lost my sanity which is hard, i do not get hot meals, sorry i am not even getting meals😅, my house looks complete mess, my back hurts, shoulder hurts and ofcourse neck as well. I have 2 days laundry to fold and u know . But according to my husband he works all day and restless🙄 he said atleast u r at home u dont have to work outside so its easy for u to just take care of a baby. I wanted to say alot but just could not get enough words. Please help i am waiting for him to come home so that we can have a full hour talk about this where only i talk and he listen👻. Give me some points to make my side strong😜