Just received the report from our fertility specialist, of the 12 embryos tested 10 have come back normal. 5 male and 5 female. ( 2 abnormal are female). We have been asked to either select a gender for our FET in a few weeks or they will transfer based on the best graded. What did other people do with this choice? I’m having a really hard time deciding. I would love a girl and my husband wants a boy first, but honestly a healthy baby is most important. My worry with them selecting is that they use the best embryo and we experience another loss, because they don’t really know why I’m not able to carry beyond 6 weeks.