I’m reposting this/rewording.

My husband won’t have sex with me. A lot of people commented and said I need to respect him, I DO. Trust me.

I ask or try to have sex maybe 1-2 times a week and always get told no, and that his dick don’t work.

But he will watch porn, sex gifs, etc and get hard. So yes I blame myself. What’s wrong with me?

My husband has sex pills from his doctor, won’t take them.

He won’t even try to get hard and is that hard being his wife? Yes.

A lot of people were saying he just doesn’t want to have sex with me and I need to respect that. I’m married to the man. It’s not that easy when you watch him watch porn then get in bed with you and not even touch you.

If he has an issue getting hard and his doctors gave him medicine and he won’t even take it.

I thought maybe it’s his self confidence.

He gained 70 pounds this year.

But it’s still extremely hard, to get all dressed up, feel confident and your own husband say no. He’s not in the mood. It’s been over a month right now.

Don’t tell me I don’t respect him because I truly do. It’s just degrading I guess you can say. He’s the only one I can be sexual to and have a sexual relationship with and we are lacking extremely.

But it for sure makes me feel extremely ugly and bad about myself when it happens so much.

Hopefully it gets better over this next year.