Venting

My daughter is four years old she keeps asking me for a brother or sister me and my gf are actually trying with a sperm donor that we know I ovulate on what I believed to be last wed unfortunately we were not able to get to our donor until the day after we still went a head and did a insert that day...i know that we are not out until Af shows up being having some cramps on n off but I would be super excited if I was pergo but if not there is always next month....any tips for at home Artificial insemination with fresh sperm?0