Now, I realize this an app filled with strangers. All of whom I’ll probably never meet a day in my life, and I say that to point out: being married is a sacred bond between two people; I know this. Serious disagreements between husband and wife really shouldn’t be broadcasted out on a somewhat public forum for ppl to read, and to draw conclusions about your character. HOWEVER🗣 this ain’t that. We’ve been married for 3 weeks and have had our very first argument, I know what you’re thinking “awwww how cute/who cares”, but this argument stems from a problem he has that premarital counseling hasn’t fixed! He makes decisions for our home, and family without running things past me. And it is so frustrating!!! I’m talking big decisions. He organized a family photo shoot without telling me one time, giving me hours notice. His cousin was living with us for MONTHS one time, and the day she moved in I found out she got the okay from him months prior! I knew NOTHING. This time, his nephews are spending the entire winter break with us, 2 weeks, and I’m just finding out. When I complained he said “I’m not trying to hear that, I really have to run things by you first? Really?” And made me feel 👌🏽 this big. I sent this text, extremely condescending and passive aggressive I know. But idk what else to say. What tips do you guys have!? Don’t all comment at once!