So I’m single and pregnant, the father is currently absent and claims he’ll be here for the baby but I can’t believe a word that comes out of his mouth. My best friend is my support and not that she isn’t amazing I really don’t feel like I have the amount of support I should. My sister got engaged and had decided to have the wedding at the end of June...I’m due in June. I would never do that to either of my sisters. I would want them to truly enjoy my wedding and not be adjusting to a newborn. I had hoped for a VBAC but I feel like the only person supporting that is my best friend and I don’t feel like it’s enough. The second doctor I met with was supportive of a VBAC but would be transferring me to another provider for the delivery and that’s just not something I’m ok with. My mom’s response to that was that maybe everything is just telling me to have a csection again. I just wish I felt like I had more people supporting my desire to have a VBAC and now I feel like because I have to just deal with a csection. I feel like my family cares more about my sisters wedding than supporting me through this difficult pregnancy. I’ve been on bedrest since week 6 and still pretty much taking care of myself. And to top it off I am so mad that I have to try to find bridesmaid dress while pregnant to wear probably 2 weeks postpartum that will easily allow me to breastfeed and that will meet my sisters idea of her wedding. Sorry just venting and don’t want to vent on other platforms.