How do I politely ask my friend, for the third or fourth time, to give me the advice/prediction cards that everyone at my baby shower filled out for me and wrote their addresses on the back so I could mail out the thank you cards?? Because I never even got to read the cards, I'm 6 weeks from having my baby and wanted to make a book because I've got some downtime. She said she wanted to make the book but any hour she isn't at work, she's posting on social media that she's out drinking with other friends. I don't want to be rude because she did throw my whole baby shower and it turned out so nice, but I REALLY need to mail my cards out since my shower was about a month ago (November 24th). I've been very patient with her about it but I need to get things moving and those cards were filled put for myself and my fiance, but she took them without us being able to even glance at them.