Severely oily skin please help me 😭

Sense I was 17 and came off birth control my skin has been atrociously oily and is just getting worse every year, I'm 25 now and I have tried everything to help this. But nothing works. I use a degreasing soap day and night now just to keep it at bay but the oil will be back in an hour and I have to use napkins to wipe it off. I can't even wear makeup anymore because it just gets ruined within 30 minutes of wearing it. This is so so embarrassing for me. Someone please help, any advice is appreciated so much.