so all of us have a toxic trait/s. we’re human it’s natural. i was thinking i could make this post, you could list your toxic trait, and people could comment on how to improve and reprogram your toxic trait and where it may stem from. don’t forget to comment on other peoples!!

- mine is that i can’t accept help. i’m very very independent where even when someone simply offers some advice or a better option without me asking, it bothers me. like when i was younger and played sports, i could not be coached. i wouldn’t take criticism. i didn’t like that what i was already doing wasn’t good enough. that someone thought i could be better than i already was. my boyfriend loves to help. i love this about him. he’s very smart and he knows a lot about a lot. and so when i say i wanna try something, he’ll give me some ideas and in my head i’m like “bro i know leave me alone” but i know he’s just trying to help because he loves me.