I came across so many posts today of GROWN women asking “what can I do?” Because their boyfriends are disrespecting their relationship by messaging other women.

Or posts about women getting cheated on and completely disregarding the fact that their husband doesn’t respect their relationship and women on here are targeting the mistress.

I’m here to let each and every one of you know that there are so many good and respectful men in the world. Pray for him and god will send him to you. Don’t SETTLE for no DISRESPECTFUL, LET ME HAVE YOUR CHECK EVERY TIME YOU GET PAID, I CONTROL THE FINANCES, IF YOU LEAVE ILL KILL MYSELF, HE HIT YOU ONCE HE MIGHT HAVE ACTUALLY CHANGED, IM NOT GOING TO CORRECT MY MOTHER FOR DISRESPECTING YOU, IM TALKING TO ANOTHER WOMAN AND YOU BLAME IT ON URSELF, IM MESSAGING OTHER GIRLS BEHIND YOUR BACK MAN!!!!!!

When I say there are men out here that will treat you like the queens you are! GRAB YOUR LIFE BY THE REIGNS AND UNDERSTAND YOU ARE IN CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE. YOU DO NOT OWE A DAMN THING TO ANYMAN. YOU ARE NOT HIS PROPERTY, YOU ARE NOT HIS MOMMY, NOT HIS MOLLY THE MAID. EVEN IF YOU HAVE CHILDREN WITH THAT MAN YOU DO NOT OWE HIM SHIT.

Don’t give your precious years and energy to a man who doesn’t deserve it. YOU decide when ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!