I went through my husbands DM’s just to make sure he’s not cheating on me or whatever and I found a couple of messages he’s been sending a female which

1) Pissed me the fuck off

2) Brought my self esteem WAY down since I just had a baby

3)Makes me want to pack up my stuff and leave him!

4) I feel so disrespected and I know damn well if I was saying shit like that to other guys he would make a huge scene and make a big deal about it.

He replied to one of her so called sexy videos saying “#lordhavemercy” and “definition of a wet dream” and I saw a few other ones that pissed me off!!! I want to confront him about it but don’t know what to say because I’m honestly so freaking mad at him!!! Also, this is a female that has over 50K followers and is a wanna be instagram model so I know he’s gonna tell me stuff like “calm down she’s just on instagram is not like I’m ever going to see her” But to me this was like a slap on the face and if he’s messaging her shit like that than who knows who else he’s messaging with. How should I handle this? 😡😤😞