Would you date someone with kids?

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I started talking to this guy, we went out for a few months then he dropped the bomb and told me he has a 4 year old daughter, it all happened when he was 19. And bruh let me tell you I was out of there faster than a thief tryna not to get caught. 💀💀💀

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Well, it sounds like he dodged a bullet then..

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I think you're well within your rights not to want to date someone with kids, especially if you're only told after a few months he has them. That should have been a conversation for early on.

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Good on you for sticking to your limits and not compromising just to have a man around. 
Dealing with ex wife/gf drama and raising someone else’s kids, or having kids at all, isn’t for everyone. I tried several times when I was younger to date guys with kids, and after that last one I swore I would never do it again.

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Big no. I don’t want kids at all so I wouldn’t even think about it

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I dated someone with a kid when I was younger. If I had to do it over again, I wouldn’t. 🤷‍♀️

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I'm dating somebody with kids. We've been together almost 7 years now. Ive known him for about 14 years. He has 2 boys - 12 & 7. I have 1 boy - 9.

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I didn't read the description before voting yes. I am dating someone with a kid but I also have a kid. Our relationship is wonderful, we knew about each others child before we started dating though. In your case I would have broken up with the guy cause that's a huge thing to not tell someone for months.

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i would yes, but only if he cares about the kid, i wouldnt be dating a guy knowing he has a kid or kids and dont care about them

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I did and now we have 2 kids together. He only supports his first born financially and doesn’t buy or contribute to our kids....
Wish I never dated someone w kids

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At 21, no. Just because I know I’m going to want to go out and always do stuff, and I know kids come first so he probably wouldn’t be able to do the same. But later in my life when I myself am more responsible, I probably wouldn’t mind

Would you date someone with kids?

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