So my mum looks after my daughter sometimes and I sometimes don't agree with her choices. A couple of days ago. I bought Chinese and specially said I don't want my daughter to have this, I'll eat it because if anyone's getting ill it will be me. About a minute later she's feeding my daughter the Chinese and I'm like mum I said no! She said sorry I was just happy she's eating( by the way she does eat and has been for a while now since she no longer breast feeds). She also kept giving my daughter orange juice saying it will clear her system (she has bowel problems) although I've explained she's been fine recently and we usually only give her stuff to go toilet when she's constipated.

I explained to my partner that she's been going to the toilet just fine and she because didn't have alot in one nappy which happens occasionally, he left out prunes to give our daughter. I came home and my mum tells me she's given her the prune yoghurt, I said it isn't a yoghurt and asked if she was constipated which she wasn't. I always keep my mum up to date on how she's doing but it doesn't feel like she listens.

When I asked about my mum's choices the other day, she said her still was fine and she wasn't distressed or anything. So in my eyes there's no need to be clearing her system if this was already done two days ago. She keeps advising me to try all different things and I'm likeee mum we're okay over here and it does in one ear and out the other.

I just said to my mum that we usually judge to see how she gets on. My daughters spent the evening screaming, I've changed countless nappies and she has a sore bottom. I think I'm just more tired than anything, trying to get my toddler to eat and being interrupted by countless nappy changes and then trying to get her to eat again is stressful!