My SO is useless with the baby

Am I the only one who has a useless SO? I mean come on! The baby is already 2 months old and he still doesn’t know how to hold her. When he holds her strait up her her wobbles and hits his chest so hard that she starts crying. He doesn’t even know how to calm her down and then he sais crap like oh she just doesn’t like me. I can’t tolerate it any more 🙄. Please tell me I’m not the only one feeling this way