Divorce?

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What do you do when your husband threatened divorce for the 3 rd time and you actually want to do it and go through but then he’s backing out and thinking he wants to work it out.

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Hell no. Do not EVER say it or use it as a threat if you don’t mean it. How many times is enough, enough??

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Seems like he was using the threat to control you and now you say go for it he doesn’t want it. I’d leave anyways because you don’t deserve those games.

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He’s using it as a threat. My ex husband did because he claimed I was a bad wife. He is a narcissist. He was abusive. I put up with way too much. When I left he claimed all the things he did and said weren’t true. He cheated our entire ten year marriage. He felt I had no place to go and couldn’t or wouldn’t leave. So he did as he pleased. He was so wrong. 
Leave and divorce him.

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Have the papers ready for next time! You don’t need that.

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Do it, using divorce as a threat is fucked up. I wouldn't want to be with someone who casually uses it as a threat.

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Follow through and get divorced? Got out now before you waste anymore time.

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I’d tell him to stop teasing and start pleasing... and give me my damn divorce! 😂🤣😂

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My husband said he wanted a Divorce and kept telling me to go get Divorce papers. We are in the process of Divorce now 😕

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I would say "fuck you, I'm divorcing you mate". Haha. Dont let him keep threatening you with divorce x

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It doesn’t matter what he wants or thinks. It all seems to be nothing more than a mind game to him. I would go ahead and file for divorce.