Advice to do next time

Jasmine • Stay bless and stay true my young independent queens 🙏❤️🎶😎

So I was in this group chat a few of my friends and other people that a friend of my friend. Anyway I created a light fun conversation cuz before everybody was feeling sad or piss over something. It fine till my ex boyfriend from two months ago started to be disrespectful to a girl I wasn’t really friend like that 👀 but I’m the type not going allow peoples to hurt other no reason. Especially in front of me which is what he did so I told both of them to cut their shit out as a peacemaker. I told my ex to stop being an ass and use his word not violence also she have the right to be piss but try to be calm and be understandable.

In the end, she get mad at me for defending her in a way and I’m not their mother and to stop without saying thank at least to me 😡 and my ex wasn’t a jerk before we met , before friends, neither when we dated or broke up but today he got mad disrespect telling me to “ hold my tongue and who made me god ?”. Honestly I was angry 😤 and hurt 😔 cuz he never treat me that way before and then the girl who I defended told me to leave him alone while everybody allow her get drag and disrespect by him beside me. So I’m wonder if I did the right thing or not ?