So my husband had a four day pass a few days before/ upto the start of my “fertile window”. I didn’t really give it much thought because we’ve been not trying but not preventing. (I.e. we were okay either way).

I tested last week which may be a little early.

I just had three days of spotting but not enough to call it a period. It was like light pinkish and with the exception of one knuckle size spot on my liner there was no actual bleeding. Just pink when I wiped.

Part of me is like maybe I should and the other part of me (who would really like a baby) is like it will just be negative maybe my periods messed up because I’ve been a little bit stressed about the deployment.

Already feeling a little sad about him being gone for the Holidays not really wanting to feel disappointed to.

Would you take another test or just wait til next month and see if it goes back to normal or is a real missed period?