So I’m seeing a MFM consultant who recommended that I should have an appointment every Tuesday with him. And then a second appointment every week on Fridays with my midwife (at normal OB office).

I’m currently 26w3d. And today my midwife told me that after 28 weeks she’ll want to see me for an extra appointment every two weeks.

She’s going to call my MFM consultant and tell him she wants me to only have one appointment a week. One with him on week one. Then one with her week two. Etc...

I’m so caught in the middle. Our consultant is really worried about baby as he is super, super tiny. But now I’m just confused. I know I need to stand up and be my own advocate. But I’m lost between the difference of opinion in my two separate professionals. I obviously need them both so don’t want to cause offense. But oh my gosh!