i left my old serving job around november because i wasn't making as much money tip- wise as i used to, and found a new job as a veterinary receptionist. i was so excited to start without putting into consideration the commute and time spent away from my now 1 year old daughter. 3 weeks into the new job, i found out i was pregnant and told my new manager who was very accepting since she is a new mother. ever since i have started the new job, i have been so down and negative and it has been hard for me to be away from my daughter. i leave the house around 6:30 am where i dont get the chance to say bye to her, and get home around 7:30 pm, 1-2 hours before i put her down for bed. the commute to get to and from work by bus is about 3 hours total. i have broke down on the bus and at work before thinking of all the lost time that i should spend with my 1 year old before welcoming her sibling. my old job has been asking about me through my boyfriend who works there, and they always tell him to let me know that i can come back. if i do go back to my old job, i would work takeout instead of serving and i would have so much more time with my daughter . i dont know what to do brcause my new job looks good on my resume but i dont know if i can take the long 13 hour days including commute or to go back to my old job .. someone help me decide..