I feel like I’m just ready for menopause at this point

I’m 14 DPO, FRER HPT negative. My 2nd failed <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IUI</a>. AF due today, but they had me on progesterone, so I’m guessing I won’t start until Monday. Every month my AF symptoms just seem worse. This month my nipples were sore/itchy, and leaking. WTH. I’m guessing my prolactin is now messed up. I’ll be 42 in March, thinking I should just throw in the towel. 😞. Just wanted to vent. Thanks ladies and best of luck to all of you