NICU STAY

Hey ladies!

I’m 23w2d with modi boys. Obviously whatever needs to be done to keep them healthy I am fine with but I have a lot of anxiety surrounding the NICU. Last October we delivered my son at 36 weeks and he ended up staying in the NICU where he passed due to an unknown genetic disorder my husband apparently carries. (We did IVF one embryo transfer and specific testing this time around) So I’m curious are we pretty much destined for a NICU stay? I know there are so many variables and different lengths but I’m just wondering if it’s almost 100% chance we will. Thanks!