ok so my bf gets stressed a lot, and sometimes he gets really really mad sometimes, and he acts like he doesn't care about anything. but right afterwards, he apologizes and takes me out for dinner. is this a toxic relationship?

also, my parents never let me hangout w him (at my house, we go places all the time but never at home), without his parents permission, but he doesn't really have parents to ask, so he's kinda on his own. i tried to explain to my parents that^^^ but they still won't let us hangout!:(

(i'm 14 and i feel like i'm old enough to hangout w my boyfriend)