My sil asked me about my losses a couple of days ago.

Like how far along i was and such.. is was around 7 weeks pregnant when it happend the first time she was 10 weeks pregnant at the time.

When i Told her at the time she Told me oh well these things happen.

Now 3 years later we spoke about it and she said well lucky you had an early los its much harder when a baby is bigger.. and i was like well yeah but still i’m sad about it because we realy wanted to have this baby... i am blessed with kids now but i think about it every now and then and i still am sad about it. I have accepted it but that doesn’t meen my feelings are not there... an i wrong for feeling hurt by the way she tells me its nothing.. i had a Total of 3 (early) losses witch i still think about..

She keeps saying that it does not matter because i was only 7 weeks and it was still small..