Im hoping someone can give me advice. Im not looking to be shamed though either. Im not hoping for rude comments.

My husband and i have been married 10 years. We have 3 kids. 10, 4 (almost) and 1.

Im in a very bad mood today because he does not help with the kids. No diaper changing, no toilet training, doesnt cook or clean, mainly he just helps with homework here and there or lets the 4 year old sit on his lap when she wants. He does work full time. Gets home at 1 am (if he stays and talks with co workers after he gets home around 2 am) but hell come home and he will make him self something to eat but also play video games until 3-5 am. Hell also go to sleep and wake up around 2-3 pm. Pretty much get ready for work and play video games until he leaves. On his days off he will just play video games also.

I know its not the best relationship but i work 15 hours a week (with really good pay kinda) but im just feeling stressed lately and also it doesnt help with my depression. (I made an appointment to get back on my depression pills for this friday) but i dont want to leave him and struggle to make it work as a single mom. I feel like a single mom already but at least he helps pay the bills. He tells me that he buys me things here and there because he doesnt help with the kids or cleaning. But its just stressful sometimes. Like sometimes the kids dont listen to me but they sure do listen to him. Im just really tired.