I hate labels but I finally found one that I think suits me just fine without leaving me feeling confined like others have. I’m officially identifying as: asexual Demi-pan romantic. It took over 12 months of research and testing out different identities in the asexual/aromantic spectrum but this one sums me up pretty well and I’m very happy with it.

The story is very long so I’ll spare the details but I’ve come to terms with my sexuality/romantic requirements(?) compulsion(?) (I don’t know what to call it) and it’s a good start to 2020. Happy to be knowing myself a little more.