My mom am I just about got into heated debate last night. The short of the long is she wants to know Baby’s gender before Baby is born. My idea of a gender reveal party is going into labor. I don’t want to know and I don’t want anyone else knowing, even though I have names picked out. I’m getting the feeling it’s not just my mom who wants to know it seems like all the other women in my family want to know too. How can I put my foot down and not cave into the pressure of family?