Not sure what to do

My husband is active duty military and just went back to work after taking some leave. I was working evenings up until the end of September, just at a restaurant. We now have 3 kids (7, 5 and 5 weeks) and no family or friends around. I have liked being home the last few months because I actually get to spend the evenings with my husband and be around for dinner and bedtime, but I'm also lonely. I miss having adults to talk to and I miss making my own paycheck. We can live off my husbands pay but very tightly until some bills get payed off. I want to earn money again but I'm also not ready to be gone in the evenings again. I would find a day job but daycare is way to expensive for that right now. Days like this I wish I at least lived closer to family and friends.