Dramatic change, yay or nay?

I’m naturally blonde and over the years my roots have made their way into a dirty blonde, so i keep lightening it trying to keep up with the bleached look i was born with, that was snatched away 🙃 I’ve always had an urge to just go dark, the curiosity is overwhelming. Recently I’ve been thinking about going RED 🙊 am i crazy? My moms entire side are all red heads. My friends and family are so quick to tell me not to touch my hair and how

i was meant to be a blonde etc.. the always shut me down so quickly, maybe they’re just as bias as I? I’d love some outside opinions! I have a hair appointment in two weeks 🙈