Our daughter turned ONE yesterday. I’ve been ugly crying all week. My husband and I talked and although he would have tried for another baby months ago, I ultimately decided that I wanted to wait until our daughter was one and here we are.

I’m ready to have another baby, we’re going on vacation in May and I don’t mind being pregnant during. I’m not a big drinker, and believe I can still have fun.

However, I have a friends wedding coming up in August. Last time I mentioned wanting to try after my daughters first birthday I thought her head was going to explode. I heard “If you’re pregnant at my wedding I will f*ing kill you. You’re going to be huge. You’re supposed to get drunk.” And I mean, she was MAD.

What would you do in my situation? Would you try for a baby anyways? Or would you wait until after August? I don’t want to put my life on hold for her, and I want my kids to be close in age. Just looking for advice. 🦥