so the last few days havent been the greatest for my relationship and i feel bad cus its long distance and i cant comfort him. Anyways today I’m crying upset and texted him 30-40 times in a row, and when my bf does answer it isn’t the nicest tone.(He’s going thru some terrible things rn so i don’t blame him) My mom asked to look at my texts with him to see what happened, and decided he’s toxic. (He's not, this is based off him jokingly calling me dummy months ago) She tells me to

tell him to "Fuck off and we are done" so I told him she said that, but then I told him

please tell me what's wrong cus I'm not done, so he does and after talking with his bestfriend, I decided to give him space. Later my mom asks me "Is he still answering you?" and I told her he's alseep and she says "Yea now, but what about earlier?" so i told her i'm giving him space and she goes "enough space to where he isn't your boyfriend?" I say no, duh, because I care about him and I'm not putting him through that on top of everything else. She tells me she thinks I should. I'm obviously not going to, and I don't even want to smh. This isn't the first time she's pushed breaking up with him. Sorry it's long... Thoughts?