What do I do about the anxiety

My husband works and I stay at home. Any job I had would only be enough to pay for child care. So we agreed I’d just stay home. We have enough to pay our bills and get necessities. His checks have been small the last couple weeks because of the holidays and I am having to pay for a bridesmaid dress by the end of February. I am so anxious about money all of the time and I don’t know how to help. I’ve thought about watching kids in my own home, but I’ve posted on Facebook, I’ve asked people, and nobody needs anybody at the moment. Not to mention he has we have 4 credit cards total that we are paying on. We are paying them off with our tax refund and cutting them up because we are done spending money we do not have. We ALWAYS make it. And our daughter always have everything she needs. But how do I relax? How do I deal with the anxiety? How do I not worry as much? I’m just a ball of anxiety all of the time and it’s always about money. 😢