I had a miscarriage over a year ago and still haven’t got my sex drive back. My husband and I are not trying to conceive right now because we are both trying to get higher paying jobs that require a lot of focus, but we still want to be intimate. The problem is that he is ready and wants to almost everyday, but I almost never want to now. When we are intimate it is nice, but I never feel like initiating it, I would rather just cuddle or sleep. I know it is upsetting him and I have told him multiple times that I don’t know why I lost all of my sex drive and that I am trying to get it back, but I don’t know what to do to get it back. I need help. We are still very much in love, but I can tell that it hurts him that I don’t ever want to and I don’t want this to affect us. I know it is normal to lose sex drive after a miscarriage, but I need advice on how to get it back, like I said it’s been over a year and I kept thinking any day now I will go back to normal, but it never happened I’m still not back to myself.