Here are mine:

No negativity and toxic people (only go around mil when I have to)

Work on getting healthier and fit everyday. Don’t worry about getting pregnant this year, it happen whenever.

Don’t let people run over you anymore includes family

Self care isn’t selfish. You are a person too, not just a wife, mother, and maid.

Everything doesn’t have to always be perfect in the house.

Don’t be afraid to ask for help, when things get crazy with kids and house, hubby is here to help too.

That’s just few probably make more