Looking to stop birth control as for the first time, I finally feel (I think) ready to have a baby, my partner has always wanted to have a baby for as long as I can remember but I was never up for the idea after growing up with so many brothers and sisters.

I have so many worries and just wanted some opinions on them. One worry being that when I stop BC I won’t manage to fall pregnant as soon as we’d like or anytime soon. In the past I fell pregnant by missing a few pills (this pregnancy didn’t happen) so the worry comes with that also and I feel that holds me back.

2nd worry being, I’m currently in my 2nd year of studying and have 1 year to go and didn’t know if it would be so bad for me to finish this 2nd year and take a year out for a baby and then complete year 3 the year after, or to just forget the baby ideas for now and finish the 3 years and then go for it.

I know this is probably a stupid post but I don’t really have anyone to speak to about any of this and I’m feeling extremely anxious and worrying (as always) with being so unsure if I’d be doing the right thing or not.