Still terrified, anyone else?

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I’m almost 11 weeks with my rainbow baby. My first pregnancy was a mmc at 9 weeks, although I did have some spotting etc with that pregnancy. 
My last appt was 8w2d and everything looked good, but I am so so scared something has happened in the meantime and I just don’t know it. Have my next ultrasound in a few days and I’m completely dreading it. So scared and anxious even though I have absolutely no reason to think somethings wrong. Anyone else feeling this way? Does it ever get better? Just want to enjoy my pregnancy, really hoping this is my rainbow.

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I had my miscarriage before I had my son and I’m STILL worried! And I had an ultrasound at 7 weeks and an appt with a Doppler trading at 11 weeks! I have an ultrasound next week and I’m excited but I’m also terrified. BUT I have a website for you.
https://datayze.com/miscarriage-reassurer.php
Fill this out and it eases your mind!

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Yes I think it is normal, I have had 4 miscarriages in a row and pregnant again currently 11 weeks. Hopefully this will be my first successful pregnancy. People who know keep saying I bet you are so excited but I don’t feel it. I wish I was, not sure if I will feel different after 12 week scan. My pregnancy has never got this far and I have all the symptoms so would have nothing to worry about I’m sure but I can’t help but feel this way. Wishing you all safe and happy pregnancies x

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Same boat. Missed miscarriage in August. I’m a disaster this time around. I reassure myself with the odds website too. Miscarriage is so common, but recurring ones are so rare, so I try to keep that in mind. I don’t have any great insight or answers, just wanted to let you know you’re not alone in feeling this way.

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I’ve never had a miscarriage and this is my first pregnancy through IVF but I worry everyday that something is wrong. I’ve had two ultrasounds with my RE that we’re good but I go to my OB on Tuesday and I worry something will be wrong.

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I feel exactly the same. I had a missed miscarriage in September for my first pregnancy. I found out at 8 weeks that the baby was measuring a week and a half behind with low heart rate and two days later there wasn’t a heartbeat. I was devastated.  I got pregnant again on my next cycle with my current pregnancy.  I’m 12 weeks tomorrow, with an ultrasound on Tuesday. I am still pretty anxious all the time. I think the worst because my morning sickness is also not as strong which makes me feel like something is wrong.

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I'm 14+3 after a MMC in July at just under 6 weeks (didnt find out until 4 weeks later). I had a scan yesterday so depending on how I feel in 1-2 weeks I'll finally start letting people know I'm pregnant. I was a nervous wreck before my scan though. I'm still pretty obsessively checking for spotting when I go to the toilet or worrying about slight discomfort. I'm hoping now that I've had a second trimester scan I feel better and can start letting myself get attached.

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After 2 consecutive miscarriages, I’m feeling EXACTLY the same! I’m 14+2 and still so terrified of going to my appointments and something being wrong. I’m hoping that when I start to feel the baby I will find some relief!

Still terrified, anyone else?

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