We have a 4month old 1 year old and a 5 year old we are moving and there 2 bedrooms on the first floor then u walk upstairs there a master bedroom. We are consider but not sure giving to our 5 year old. We are bit neevous leaving all young kids down stairs by them self. What would u do leave kids down stairs and our roombup or give the upstairs to the oldest child the stairs make us neverous with the oldest there no railings and him feeling discluded from us alot of the times he plays in his room.