A little guidance?

Hi. So I will say right off the bat that I have never had an abortion. However, my mom is considering one and I don't blame her. I want to know how I can support her if you ladies have anything that helped you get through it? I'm struggling with the situation a little myself but I'll figure out how to cope. I'm concerned about my mom because every time she sees me she cries and says she is a fuck up because she's dragging me through it (I'm working on my bachelors and masters at the same time). How can I support my mom? How can I comfort her? I really have no idea. I am honest in my cluelessness that I don't know the emotional toll it takes but I know it's a great one and I want to support her.

She doesn't want to talk to anyone of her friends about it because while they have had it done, they are still sensitive (for a lack of a better word) about it.

It's a very tricky situation even if you don't factor in the abortion.

I'm really sorry if I offended anyone I really wasn't trying to I just want to help her.