Advice?

So I’m a stay at home mom and I obviously love it. But I feel like others see me as being lazy and doing nothing. And by others I mean my fiancé and his family. He’s mad that I’m tired in the mornings and says it’s from watching tv all night. He’s mad I don’t have all his laundry done the second he needs it. His family thinks I’m a mooch because I don’t have a job. It’s just making me feel so depressed. And I guess I just need kind words to remind me I’m not a lazy mooch. They all just make me feel so alone. When I ask his mom for support, she obviously takes his side but I have no family so I have no one else to go to for help. I don’t know what to do anymore. I clean and cook and raise our son everyday but it just doesn’t feel like I’m doing enough.