My cervix

I’ve been ttc a year now, and I just recently came off the mini pill about 4 weeks ago. I had to take it due to a cyst on my right ovary. Anyways the last weeks I was on it I was inconsistent and when I stopped I had withdrawal bleeding (he’s never pulled out during sex pretty much) and glow says now is when I’m fertile but that could be wrong due to irregular cycles and the pill. ANYWAYSS today I felt my cervix and I’ve never felt it so high up , it softer than normal but the example they give is nose if it’s hard lips if it’s soft.... and I feel like it’s both 😂 pls help.. I’m really hoping it’s my turn to conceive but idk if I’m ovulating or maybe early pregnant